Recharging and Disconnecting

How important is recharging to you?  No, I’m not talking about the importance of keeping your gadgets charged.  We already know that we should always be charging all of our digital leashes.  What I’m talking about is taking downtime away from the constantly connected worlds that we live in and allowing yourself to mentally and physically recharge.  Many of us work long hours, often times deep into nights and over weekends.  Even when we do get some downtime from the office, such as on the weekends, that time is usually filled with everything else in our lives that demand our attention whether they be household projects, cleaning, errand running, or a number of other to-dos.  All of this slowly wears us down, especially if you’re adding a lack of solid sleep, high stress environments, business travel, a lack of exercise or a sound diet to the mix.

Even when we do get an opportunity to take a vacation, we’re usually still very much plugged in and connected though albeit on a slower schedule.  When I take weekend getaways or domestic vacations I know I’m guilty of this.  I might not spend all day on email, Twitter, Facebook and RSS as I do during a regular workday but I’ll still check in a few times throughout the day.  Even if I don’t take action on the emails coming in, I still know what’s going on and therefore may be adding stress into the getaway because of knowing what’s awaiting me when I get home or feeling an urge to deal with the situation while away.

That is why I’ve become an increasing fan of taking sailing vacations over the past few years.  Two years ago I went on my first sailing trip down to the British Virgin Islands.  Not only was it an amazing vacation but I was completely disconnected from the world for 10 days.  Not just from my connected world but from everything.  And guess what?  Everything was just fine.  It took about a week to get back into the saddle and caught up but it was well worth it.  When I came back I was incredibly productivie because I felt clear-headed and organized.  I had just come back from over a week of spending nights laying under the stars letting my mind wonder about anything and everything.

In between leaving New Marketing Labs and before starting at Citrix Online my family took another sailing trip, this time to St. Vincent and the Grenadines, along with a couple days on the way back in Barbados.  It was the perfect opportunity to disconnect from everything and spend quality time with my family.  It was one of the first times, if not the only time, so far in my career where I went away on a vacation without a corporate email account.  Granted, I do have my personal email accounts and my Caminito email account, all of which receive a lot of emails on a daily basis but still not anywhere on the level of NML or now, Citrix Online.  It was an absolutely incredible trip filled with laughter, swimming with turtles, hiking expeditions, exploration and everything that involved not being connected.

Since returning from vacation I have been thinking more about recharging and how important it needs to be in all of our lives.  Sure, recharging won’t always be taking a sailing trip around remote islands, but it doesn’t have to be.  Recharging could be taking a date night once per week with your spouse where you’re completely disconnected and ban the talk of bills, honey-do projects or any of the other stresses in your personal and professional lives.  No matter how you do it, we all need to take time to recharge.

How are you finding ways to recharge?

Oh and if you wanted to see photos from my sailing trip, check out the below slideshow:

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  • Anonymous

    Justin, I so agree with this post. It is really hard to disconnect. Your sailing idea is really good. I also have done vacations to Mexico – no laptap, cell phone connections stink and are expensive as hell. When I took Maria to Tampa last year, I promised her that I wouldn’t do any work. I had to keep my promise to my 5 year old. :-) Again, by not taking a laptop, it really makes a difference. This year, I’ll need to leave my iPhone at home and take a throwaway phone for emergencies.

    But, really, I think it is a mindset to disconnect. You have to consciously tell yourself that you’re not going to work. Not even for a second. It feels weird at first and I actually felt anxious here and there for the first two days which means there’s an addiction aspect to it. It gets easier though as the week goes on.

    I also found that instead of 7 days vacation, 10 days is better. Two days to really disconnect and then you have a full 8 days of totally letting go and enjoying yourself.

    That’s what has worked for me over the years.

    Katherine

  • http://jasonkeath.com jakrose

    Looks like an amazing time. Glad I got to send you kids off.

    I have been increasingly thinking about this. Finding time to separate form the internet is tough when your business AND your social life AND your media consumption revolves around it. I see more and more how important it is to find the time to disconnect though. Great post Justin.

  • http://justinrlevy.com justinlevy

    I definitely agree that there is an addiction aspect to it because I’ve felt
    the same way that you describe the couple times that I’ve totally
    disconnected. Also, what’s hard, as Jason mentions, is that completely
    disconnecting is difficult when it’s your business, social life and source
    of media consumption. That’s the reason I like the sailing trips, though,
    because unless you go on vacation with those friends, you would be totally
    disconnected from those things even if they were in the offline world.

  • http://justinrlevy.com justinlevy

    That was great getting to see you that day! It was an absolutely incredible
    time that’s hard to imagine we were just there a few weeks ago!

    I agree and that’s exactly where I have difficulty with disconnecting
    because if I’m taking a break from doing work then I’m consuming media or
    catching up with friends. But, I’m increasingly taking more evenings or
    weekend days off than I used to. One of the prime reasons is my travel
    schedule. If I’ve been gone for a few days or more, that first night or
    weekend day that I get home I typically am completely offline hanging out
    with my wife and dog. That has been a great equalizer for me.

  • Anonymous

    When you have your own, home-based business it’s especially hard to disconnect, as you’re always hanging around your computer. A few years ago I took up kayaking (something I can do with my husband); no whitewater, just lakes and rivers and bays. It’s a great way to take short breaks from the job and the tech world.

    In May, 2009, and June, 2010, my daughter (adult) and I traveled to Japan, visiting a friend & his family and touring on our own. Because of the time difference, we were very much disconnected from our “real” lives. However, for the most recent trip I blogged almost every day, with that day’s photos in my Picasa web album. Gave me a nice record of the trip and allowed everyone back home to keep up with us. And in two weeks, my husband and I will be in Brazil for a week, visiting friends. Because they are techies, I’m sure I’ll be at least somewhat connected, but I’m looking forward to no snow (it’s summer in Brazil!) Should be a very relaxing and recharging time.

  • Susan

    I agree. Getting away from it all is so important for our marriages and our mental health. I highly recommend cruises. While you can access your email on ship, at 70 cents per minute, most people don’t. I really enjoy having a week or more with just my husband–no kids (ours are adults), no phone, no computer, and no television. We rest and focus on one another. Great way to recharge our batteries.